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What about no wedding?

I had (and would have again) a CHEAP one. Which means no limos, no meringue dress, no fuss and froth and folderols. So much happier and more fun.

Had formal first time. If doing again would be a quieter affair more intimate = more meaningful I have found in my lifetime expereince of weddings, and a wedding needs to be what both people want for it to mean what it needs to mean to them. My Mum offered us the money rather than th pomp first time thru I wanted money but thought intended wanted a wedding and I found latter he wanted the moeny too but thought I wantd the wedding so we both refused her LOL