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Well, from my perspective, if the person coming to my door to ask to use the loo was usually verbally abusive, and not welcoming at the other end when we do pick-ups, I would say that boundaries are being crossed.
Then, there is also the other consideration, of the fact that there are a dozen public toilets in the vicinity that could be used rather than ours.
I would totally depend on what kind of terms my ex and I where on.
I know one couple who is divorced and are on very friendly terms. They see each other all the time and they still often celebrate special occasions together, like the kids birthdays. I doubt either one asks permission to use the others toilet. In fact it wouldn't surprise me to find out they each had keys to the others house.
[3 points]2 years ago by dr1024ReplyEdited 2 years ago by dr1024
Australia
Why wouldn't I?
Well, from my perspective, if the person coming to my door to ask to use the loo was usually verbally abusive, and not welcoming at the other end when we do pick-ups, I would say that boundaries are being crossed.
Then, there is also the other consideration, of the fact that there are a dozen public toilets in the vicinity that could be used rather than ours.
Then you might need to rephrase the question. Many ex spouses are on good terms with each other.
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Akwarddddd
WTF akward your write gillamonster
I'm not in that situation but I think it depends on what terms I am with my ex.
I don't want anything from an ex except the kid I came after--I would piss in her bushes before I asked to use her pot.
I would totally depend on what kind of terms my ex and I where on.
I know one couple who is divorced and are on very friendly terms. They see each other all the time and they still often celebrate special occasions together, like the kids birthdays. I doubt either one asks permission to use the others toilet. In fact it wouldn't surprise me to find out they each had keys to the others house.
It's amazing how some breakups are so animosity-free and others aren't. I wonder what makes people so screwy?
If I needed to go sure I would. Why wouldn't I?