| Wife's at Mardi Gras with 4 other women, hasn't called in 2 days IS SHE CHEATING? normal is call a day to say she's safe |
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Asked 270 days ago
by inkogn1to  United States |
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Married 5 years, together 7 - 2 daughters fulltime, but they are mine from a previous marriage (ages 11 and 19) she has accepted her female parent role fairly well, despite being 7 years younger than me. Smoker, social drinker, energetic, pragmatic and realistic except when it comes to women, lol.
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She had text or called the first 2 night to say she got in safe, but not last night or tonight - they leave to return tomorrow. We talked about all the other issues before she left and she seemed genuinely sorry for the issues last year and before but swears there has been nothing to worry about since - says she was drunk and made mistakes that she learned from.
Since she called and texted twice my instinct would be to believe her.
I think you now the answer to that. Just look at some of your other questions you have asked about her.
Did you miss out on anything?
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[0 points] 270 days ago by deleted user ReplyShe is cheating, or she isn't. It doesn't matter what the people here think.
If you have to ask, you are already doomed.
There is uncertainty and distrust in your mind.
It can only go downhill if you keep this state of mind, before long you will start thinkign she is screwing someone in the bushes if she is 10 minutes late coming back from a walk to the local shop!
Either accept that you will never be sure and get on with enjoying what you have, or if you can't accept that, then get out now, before something bad happens.
Jealously and mistrust will kill any relationship in time.
If the good part of what you have worth the suffering the bad part brings? If so, fine, bite the bullet and get on with your life, if not, say goodbye.
Do they have hot tubs there?
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[2 points] 270 days ago by deleted user ReplyDo you actually have no one to talk to about this besides us? If that is true, you have bigger problems than a wife who is cheating on you.
He has his 2 daughters to talk to about this. Hey Inkogn1to the only good advice I have is to do whats right for your two daughters.
If she's gone with her friends "last year and before" and cheated on you, what the hell are you doing letting her go again this year???