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Date a better quality of man.

Well i suppose there is that.

There dont appear to be many of this quality around though!!

All you can really do is learn from the experience. What were the signs you ignored that things weren't what they should be? Where did you NOT listen to your better self?

Just don't be bitter 'cause that can cause you to miss something good down the line.

This is true. V good advice.

I did see all the signs. But i asked him straight out what was going out and 'no its you i love' and i just beleived him - becuase i am always paranoid about everything, so i juts have to tell myself to ignore myself sometimes.

lol

GIRL! Just been through this mess. For FOUR months I got every excuse in the book for why he couldn't see me. I even asked him if he wanted to start seeing other people, he said "No, no!" and the whole time he was already seeing someone else.

I'm 45, he was 46. So the problem is not your youth and inexperience. The problem is the choices you made, and choices those of us who believe whatever we are told by those we love DESPITE the evidence to the contrary. Be glad you found out now, and not when you were pregnant. Move on, and resolve to choose using a bit more wisdom next time. That's all you can do. Move on. My sister has a saying that, although I don't completely agree with, makes me laugh these days. She says: "Men are like paper towels. You rip one off, and there's another one right behind him." (lol)

ok - this is going to seem veeery odd

i arent a girl

i am a gay guy - i picked that user name becuase it was something easy to remember which i use for everything, and i didnt think it would matter

sorry for misleading you!!

but i LOVE the saying!!

(and your vid on youTube is ACE!)

lol

There are more fish in the sea. Forget the bum.

yes but it seems these fish REFUSE to txt me!!

lol

but yes. he is a BUM! haha.

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That's not much help when you're in the desert.

ha ha ha ha ha

thats made me laugh!

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Is your name Shane Warne ?

My mother taught me "there isn't a man on this planet worth your tears" - I'd just count my losses and walk away.

okies -

i am over him - i just want a bit of revenge

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