| We go to strip clubs together, she went with her "work husband" without me "to sober him up before driving" do I divorce her? |
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Asked 3 years ago
by inkogn1to  United States |
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About
Married 5 years, together 7 - 2 daughters fulltime, but they are mine from a previous marriage (ages 11 and 19) she has accepted her female parent role fairly well, despite being 7 years younger than me. Smoker, social drinker, energetic, pragmatic and realistic except when it comes to women, lol.
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| 4 Points |
Now, I believe she's playing you for the fool if she expects you to buy this. If this was just one night from hell, you can deal with it, I hope. Work it out. If it's 4 separate instances, you've got a trend..
Vote Down 2 years ago was the down the pants incident, 1 year ago was the feeling up incident and last week was the strip club incident with intermittent kissing mixed throughout. I know, I know, as I type this I see the patern myself. My real complaint is NOW that I've told her straight how it affects me, she says "sorry, didn't know it was hurting you" I say if you didn't know that already, then you don't think much of me and probably never will. We've built a lot and I hate to bring in the wrecking crew, but I don't see where I can ever trust her or worse, feel like she isn't behaving just because I asked her to - If you don't want to make me feel good, then why are we together? I've dealt with each incident individually as if it were isolated and the last time it would happen, but each event is slightly different enough to her apparently - I say disrespect of any shade is still disrespect.