Should I leave my boyfriend if he does not propose after 4 years?He has told me he wants me forever
Submitted 1 year ago by jessupk
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| NO, but I would leave after five years. | |
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| No, wait until you find someone better first | |
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| After letting him know you want a commiment, leave after five years. | |
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He is probably being truthful to you but it is just without marriage. Now all you have to deal with is the reality.
Marriage is the symbol of the thing, and not the thing itself.. but if the ring on your finger is more important to you than his help, affection, and company, by all means hit the road.
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[1 point] 1 year ago by deleted user ReplyGene Simmons would say the very same thing. :-)
Depends on what YOU want. He can keep you forever (until he finds something better forever) or he can commit to YOU forever (let's keep this working for us). Marriage is difficult at times. Before I married, I had no idea how much I would grow in my feelings for the guy I married. Good times, bad times, day to day times. Life is not a fairy tale to live, it's an adventure and I like to share. You will always think of the "one that got away". Marriage doesn't make you a prisoner, but it does make you a different person. You choose. Besides, if you really want a marriage proposal ASK HIM !! After 30 years of marriage to the same man, we still wonder if it will last. And YES, I did ask him. Good Luck.
good one Mags59 :-)
If he can't make a commitment after 4 years, he never will!
do you really love your boyfriend? if you would, or you would propose yourself, or you just would not care because it wouldn't be a matter of time: if you want to be forever with him who cares if you marry after 4 years or after 10 or never? you are together anyway, with the person you love. so I really do not get your question. being with somebody is a matter of love, not a matter of time limits! so if you really think that you should base your relationship on that, than sincerely, just leave.
Hey now dont tell her that!! Ive been dating my girl for over 6 years and I love her dearly!! We havent gotten married because we want to be prepared. My girl isnt the type for an extravagant wedding but she is getting one anyways. Just like we will have an awesome honeymoon because we have been saving money for the past 6 years. Beyond all that we kinda feel like our freinds and family has kinda ruined the whole point of getting married because now all they do is fight and seem to be having a real hard time getting by. ALL MARRAGE IS A MONEY PIT! If you dont have the resources to fill that pit then wait till you do.
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[1 point] 1 year ago by deleted user ReplyThats how we have been getting our money. Thats also why we havent been able to use that money for its intended purpose.
Hey guys it's me! We got engaged in August and both are really happy! Never had to reach the 4 year mark! YAY