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Another thing, if this occurred recently, your emotions are boiling. If this happened six months ago, you haven't recovered and it's time to reassess the situation..
2 years ago was the down the pants incident, 1 year ago was the feeling up incident and last week was the strip club incident with intermittent kissing mixed throughout. I know, I know, as I type this I see the patern myself. My real complaint is NOW that I've told her straight how it affects me, she says "sorry, didn't know it was hurting you" I say if you didn't know that already, then you don't think much of me and probably never will. We've built a lot and I hate to bring in the wrecking crew, but I don't see where I can ever trust her or worse, feel like she isn't behaving just because I asked her to - If you don't want to make me feel good, then why are we together? I've dealt with each incident individually as if it were isolated and the last time it would happen, but each event is slightly different enough to her apparently - I say disrespect of any shade is still disrespect.
[1 point]1 year ago by inkogn1toReplyEdited 1 year ago by inkogn1to
Married 5 years, together 7 - 2 daughters fulltime, but they are mine from a previous marriage (ages 11 and 19) she has accepted her female parent role fairly well, despite being 7 years younger than me. Smoker, social drinker, energetic, pragmatic and realistic except when it comes to women, lol.
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[3 points] 1 year ago by deleted user ReplyAnother thing, if this occurred recently, your emotions are boiling. If this happened six months ago, you haven't recovered and it's time to reassess the situation..
2 years ago was the down the pants incident, 1 year ago was the feeling up incident and last week was the strip club incident with intermittent kissing mixed throughout. I know, I know, as I type this I see the patern myself. My real complaint is NOW that I've told her straight how it affects me, she says "sorry, didn't know it was hurting you" I say if you didn't know that already, then you don't think much of me and probably never will. We've built a lot and I hate to bring in the wrecking crew, but I don't see where I can ever trust her or worse, feel like she isn't behaving just because I asked her to - If you don't want to make me feel good, then why are we together? I've dealt with each incident individually as if it were isolated and the last time it would happen, but each event is slightly different enough to her apparently - I say disrespect of any shade is still disrespect.
I don't know how you do it?! I had a girlfriend like that once. Nothing but bad memories. RUN RUNAWAY!
You must really be a puss to put up with this crap.