| My 12 yr old son got a text from a 13 yr old girl that was pretty xrated, what do I do about it? |
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My 12 yr old son got a text from a 13 yr old girl that was pretty xrated, what do I do about it?
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Asked 3 years ago
by Mitzilsg  United States |
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explain everything about teh birds and the bees, he will appreciate it to know what the girl sent him
The girl sent the message to the boy!
I would first talk to your son and ensure he knows everything about sex education.
It depends on what the girls parents are like - only you know if it is a good idea to approach them.
Call the girl's parents, but be very tactful. Choose your words carefully and watch your attitude as to not make them defensive.
I think you have a duty of care both children. I sure the girls parents wouldn't want their daughter send stuff like this around. If she txting stuff like this there's more going on as well. Where there is smoke....
What if you had a daughter and a boy txt like this to her or if your Son sent the txt, how would you react then?
I think you should call the girls parents them this. Have a think about their possible reactions first so you are prepared and then make the call.
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[1 point] 3 years ago by deleted user Replytalk to my son and test out his understanding of "adult" issues. it is up to the girl's parents to monitor her, not me. however if i knew them socially i might initiate a conversation in which we discuss what we've done to ensure our children are properly educated about sex and healthy relationships.
Was he disgusted by it? Did he say, "Ma, look at this nasty stuff she's sending me." If it's obvious that he was severely traumatized by this texting I would talk to her and let her know it's not appropriate. Say my son is a good boy and such messages may warp him for life.
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[1 point] 3 years ago by deleted user ReplyDon't interfere with the girl, it's not your child, you should discuss things with your son and make sure he understand the risk of sex, such as STDs and babies, but that is in-a-way a punishment by putting your child on the spot like that. And btw, i doubt your son gets messages like that just out of the blue, it takes two to tango, and it takes two to text.
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call her names and tell her to leave your son alone co'z shes fat. lol . nah talk to the parents then call them Fat.
Why you trying to cock block a young brother?
You wish to mark questions as inappropriate and come up with this answer? Shameful :-/