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There are several ways that I could approach a rebuttal to this argument. In the end I have decided to use your own biblical argument against you. You cite several times the books Genesis, Ephesians, etc. However, there is one major flaw with your reasoning that these examples prove Christians should be against gay marriage. In Matthew 18:18 Jesus tells his disciples "Whatever you shall bind on earth shall be bound in heaven: and whatever you shall loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven." This was Jesus's way to give the disciples authority to change the practices of the Church. In the early years of Christianity, many Greek Gentiles worried about having to be circumcised or keep kosher if they converted. There the early leaders of Christianity (Including Peter) made the decision that Christians were not to be obligated to follow Jewish law. Included in this is the ban of homosexuality. So until you and all the other fanatics start eating no pork and seafood (etc.), don't go around cherry-picking the old testament.

Second, the psychologists who claim that one needs both a father and mother to function are the ones with clear ties to anti-gay rights groups. Thus I find it hard to base a conclusion off of their findings.

Third, if one were to use the argument that something should be banned simply because it is "unnatural", what would we do with cars, cigarettes, modern medicine, and even electricity. I could claim all I want "People weren't meant to fly! Ban all airplanes!"

I would then, of course, be branded a madman.

Your fourth argument is by far the most ridiculous. Claiming that because the gay community is angry when they are denied rights means they are wrong is completely ridiculous. Wouldn't this mean the fundamentalist Christians who show up at funerals and buildings named after gays to yell at passerby even more in the wrong?

In conclusion, all of your arguments, though long-winded and well-worded, are flimsy at best and ridiculous at worst. The very book you seek to justify your argument with disproves you, your scientific evidence is extremely biased, and your attempt to label gays as "ruthless" seems nothing more than a childish denial of logic and fact. Thus I am forced to disagree with you on this topic.

It is fine that you believe gay marriage to be immoral. But to force your religious ideals into public policy is an action usually taken by men like Mahmoud Ahmadinejad or Hitler. So please, keep it to yourself.

Dear Nickerzz. I appreciate your well written reply. It is because you seam sensible that I approach you with this question: Would a reasonable solution not be to grant same sex couples the right to a civil union, with the exact same legislated benefits and responsibilities as a traditional marriage. That would allow Christians to feel like the biblical definition of marriage is preserved and the same sex couples to feel like their constitutional rights are preserved? Thank you. Dave

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If you want to adhere to your religious definitions and believes then that is fine with me, just don't force your religion onto others! How would you feel if same sex marriage was made compulsory? (I know I would be just as upset upset as I am with making same sex marriage illegal)

I will be so glad when we don't have to talk about this anymore. When it is as good as any other marriage.

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It'll be their new Roe v. Wade battle. They'll be split into two sects.

...performed by the state, and any churches who wish to perform them.

The way I see it, the issue of the state not allowing same sex union is discrimination, given the separation of church and state and the fact that homosexuals meet the criteria of the constitution for equal rights, as they are citizens and people. I don't care if some churches don't want to perform them for religious reasons. Fine, they shouldn't be required to. However, any rights or benefits we get from marriage are not granted by the church, but by the state (such as tax benefits, inheritance rights, etc). Therefore, the state cannot refuse to marry people based on their sexual preference.

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http://marriage.about.com/cs/generalhistory/a/marriagehistory.htm

In a nutshell, marriage was developed as a way to consolidate wealth within certain bloodlines. The idea of marrying "for love" is fairly modern.

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What I take from the link is that marriage has been and will be redefined as human societies progress. Also, as some gay couples raise children that were artificially inseminated using donor sperm or eggs from siblings of their lovers, the consolidation of wealth within bloodlines still applies.

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Hear, hear.

If you think I set up a straw man, check out Doreen's or that other Atheist (I refuse to use her name.) They get furious when anyone even suggests that we have a right to practice our religion. Even you start talking about ritual murder. I haven't seen anyone practicing Mayan lately B^)

The last time the supreme court addressed religious practices, it was to stop certain native American rites involving Peyote in a sweat lodge. (and I think they got that one wrong.) At least ask001 recognizes fair play. ("I have a major problem. Just like you would have a problem if I forced my beliefs onto you.")

Here's the problem, translate. The longer a government operates, the more it attempts to regulate everything in everyone's lives. 100 years ago, the government did not regulate drugs, food, how to take care of our children, education, guns, and transportation. They did heavily regulate personal behavior. Speaking in general terms now, the US government started repealing or ignoring laws that required people to do certain thing and adopted laws to regulate institutions. This was widely acceptable because it was seen as a way to prevent the super rich from taking over the country. (a very real possibility at one time.) The government started with steel and railroads, then moved to other transportation systems and heavy manufacturing. The great depression brought on government regulation of banks and financial systems. When you bring it up to today, religion is the ONLY lightly regulated institution in the USA.

My opinion is that Progressives feel that anything not government regulated is dangerous to the US. That's why there is such a struggle over health care. Up until 20 or so years ago, health care decisions were made by Doctors and patients. Then secondary payers (insurance companies and HMO's) started making medical decisions and often got it wrong. Instead of fixing the secondary payer problem, most politicians are talking about the government becoming the secondary payer. This means that the healers and the healed will no longer have any financial stake in the system. Though some Conservatives believe that the medical system will collapse, I believe that we will end up like England, with a single payer system. Access will, of necessity, be capped and will be provided only as the government sees fit. Even with the best intentions, it will discourage innovation and stop unconventional research in it's tracks. Government regulation has already driven the clothing, shoe, fuel, energy, consumer electronics and many other industries off shore.

It has not yet heavily regulated religion. And I'm afraid for America if it starts to.

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Following criminal law has never been a real problem for us. It's the regulatory law that frightens me. (I already explained why.) US law has regulated marriage to mostly Christian values. Our mistake is allowing the regulation without much concern as long as the regulation is on "our side".

I've really thought long and hard about this. Ask001 and I had a long discussion about this and I discovered that I really didn't have any desire to regulate homosexuality. From a society's point of view, I believe that normalizing gay behavior can have bad side effects, but they are only made much worse by government regulation. It dawned on me that the main problem with homosexual marriage is that the law doesn't protect them as the law protects heterosexual marriage.

Then I had to ask if marriage needs protected? Well, contract law should protect the marriage itself. And we need to specify when and how to get out of the contract and settle damages. Laws about children are largely devoid of references to marriage. That only leaves inheritance and "next of kin" designations. Those are comparatively easy to solve without resorting to laws regulating marriage.

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The problem here is not religion. The problem is an age old struggle. Man against man. He uses God as a weapon.

"Refuse to name her"?

That does not sound very Christian.

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Then you should not say "refuse to name her." You should make no reference at all. Do not be childish.

Perhaps this is a case of lack of understanding of the Christian faith. Jesus made it clear that his followers are to honor, respect and obey their authorities. However, their are different realms or jurisdictions (e.g. The family, the church, the civil authorities and the workplace) and their are different levels (e.g. God vs. the rest). This is the biblical view on authority. God clearly states that his followers should submit to their authorities but not where they are asked to disobey God. A classic example is child discipline through spanking. God advocates this, so what is a law-abiding Christian to do if it is illegal on a civil authority level? He or she must submit to God, but be wise and above reproach as far as possible. This would mean doing it privately, and making absolutely certain to avoid abuse. It would further mean respectfully accepting any repercussions coming from the civil authorities. I hope this helps your understanding of the biblical world view. Blessings. Dave

Freedom OF religion is The freedom to choose a certain religion or not any religion and not being controlled by one particular religion. You tell Translate that "people like you" can not prevent your religion so quit trying to control and get rid of ours or the lack of ours and force us to obey yours.

The minute you try to force your religion onto me through legislation and therefor law enforcement), I have a major problem. Just like you would have a problem if I forced my believes onto you.

There are only two real choices here. The "illegal because of polygamy/bestiality" is a non starter, which eliminates one of the other choices as well.

Why is it a non-starter? Obviously no Bible believing Christian can say polygamy is morally wrong, unless they are willing to throw Moses, Abraham, Jacob, David, etc. under the bus.

The bestiality is ridiculous on its face, because animals can't give consent.

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Again - there's no giving them logic. If you GIVE them a logical argument, they resort to irrationality. It's one group who wants to think of themselves as "God's anointed" and therefore reserve the right to judge all others. They feel they have the right to pick and choose deserves legal rights. If you point out that's against the law - then they quote GOD'S law. When you point out GOD'S law, they point at MAN'S law. There's no winning. It's simply come down to America having to rescue the US Constitution from those who wish to tear it apart. And right now we have to rescue it from the Christians.

One good thing may come out of this, however. With a growing population of Muslims who believe in changing laws to suit their religion, we're beginning to strengthen the US Constitution against the Christians - and it will be that much stronger when the Muslims follow behind and try the same thing.

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Why is it a non-starter? Obviously no Bible believing Christian can say polygamy is morally wrong, unless they are willing to throw Moses, Abraham, Jacob, David, etc. under the bus.

The bestiality (in the sense of people wanting to marry animals) is ridiculous on its face, because animals can't give consent.

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So you're willing to throw Moses, Abraham, Jacob and David under the bus?

Not everyone is Jewish or Christian. While certain religions may view it so, there is nothing inherently morally wrong with polygyny or polyandry, like there is with rape or murder.

From the Judeo-Christian point of view, while God allowed, blessed, and even arranged polygamist families in ancient Judea, Paul, in the New Testament, promoted 1 man, 1 woman marriages. It is debatable who actually knows the will of God. The Old and New testaments both repeatedly condemned homosexuality. I think you will find less problems promoting polygamy among the religious than you did homosexuality as a human rights issue.

That was sort of my point. ;o)

In that case, glad to help you make it B^)

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The christians are telling people that they have the right to control EVERYBODY with THEIR gods law whether others believe in THEIR god or not. They whine and complain that others are trying to control them then they turn immediately around and say that EVERYBODY should bow down to THEIR god. The next thing you know they will be repeating history and slaughtering those who do not believe in THEIR god and refuse to obey THEIR and THEIR gods law. I have asked Christians many times if they believe that THEIR religion should rule and control the US and the world they always go to another subject or quote me THEIR religion. THAT IS NOT AN ANSWER!!!!!

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Amen.

bestiality IS legal in some states. as the famous rapper Eminem said..."Sometimes, I wanna get on TV and just let loose, but can't

but it's cool for Tom Green to hump a dead moose

"My bum is on your lips, my bum is on your lips"

And if I'm lucky, you might just give it a little kiss

And that's the message that we deliver to little kids

And expect them not to know what a woman's clitoris is

Of course they gonna know what intercourse is

By the time they hit fourth grade

They got the Discovery Channel don't they?

"We ain't nothing but mammals.." Well, some of us cannibals

who cut other people open like cantaloupes

But if we can hump dead animals and antelopes

then there's no reason that a man and another man can't elope

But if you feel like I feel, I got the antidote

Women wave your pantyhose, sing the chorus and it goes"

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I don't know of any states where you can marry an animal. The animal cannot give consent.