| Do you think its ok to break up a realtionship after 11 years - if the partner is not caring or loving enough for you? |
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Asked 2 years ago
by keepmesecret  India |
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I bet there is more to this than the question portraits.
Yes, you are worthy of someone loving you. Sometimes its hard to believe that. Why on EARTH would you stay with someone who wasn't good for you. You can find someone better and, undoubtedly, you probably already have.
It's ok, but not necessarily wise. Especially men tend to seem less caring than they actually are. Are you really unhappy with your partner? Do you think you've tried everything?
That is always a valid reason to end a relationship in my opinion. How bad is the alternative of being single again?
not bad not bad at all... the reason i put up this qs... was not for me ... but a frnd with who i was having this argument and told her that majority of ppl will say that its ok to dump the guy... this poll just made my argument stronger!
The longer you are married the scarier the thought of being single again. My mom had an elderly friend who lived with his mom all his life. When she died he died about five years later about age 65. I'm only six years younger. I know he would have been happier if he had been married but he wasn't a very social person. I don't have much idea what he did for fun. I just remember thinking I hope I don't end up like "Joe."
If someone is not willing to publicly commit to you after 11 years, then they never were caring or loving enough. If you are not willing to publicly commit to your partner/mate/spouse, you only get limited caring and loving because you were never caring or loving enough.