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She had text or called the first 2 night to say she got in safe, but not last night or tonight - they leave to return tomorrow. We talked about all the other issues before she left and she seemed genuinely sorry for the issues last year and before but swears there has been nothing to worry about since - says she was drunk and made mistakes that she learned from.

It's been done - apparently it was long overdue. I thought he had my back, even thought I knew he was a pig to his wife by messing with other women, I never would have guessed he would have went after mine.

Yeah, he was one of my closest friends (of 10 years mind you) I assumed we could get drunk together and no be in danger - I was wrong - he traded our friendship for 120 seconds of selfishness - but friends I can deal with loosing (my true ones still remain) But with her, it's supposed to be different, she is supposed to have my best interest at heart AT ALL TIMES. We only drink 6 or 8 times a year, but when we do, it is all out drunkeness for sure. She's so defensive when we talk about it, it's hard to get 100% of the details, but then again, can I really believe what she says after she did me wrong - everybody lies to cover their own ass. So I assume it's worse than she told me about, BUT what I really can't shake is the idea that I don't respect her anymore and don't want to fix this because she no longer seems worth it to me.

Vote Down 2 years ago was the down the pants incident, 1 year ago was the feeling up incident and last week was the strip club incident with intermittent kissing mixed throughout. I know, I know, as I type this I see the patern myself. My real complaint is NOW that I've told her straight how it affects me, she says "sorry, didn't know it was hurting you" I say if you didn't know that already, then you don't think much of me and probably never will. We've built a lot and I hate to bring in the wrecking crew, but I don't see where I can ever trust her or worse, feel like she isn't behaving just because I asked her to - If you don't want to make me feel good, then why are we together? I've dealt with each incident individually as if it were isolated and the last time it would happen, but each event is slightly different enough to her apparently - I say disrespect of any shade is still disrespect.

Vote Down 2 years ago was the down the pants incident, 1 year ago was the feeling up incident and last week was the strip club incident with intermittent kissing mixed throughout. I know, I know, as I type this I see the patern myself. My real complaint is NOW that I've told her straight how it affects me, she says "sorry, didn't know it was hurting you" I say if you didn't know that already, then you don't think much of me and probably never will. We've built a lot and I hate to bring in the wrecking crew, but I don't see where I can ever trust her or worse, feel like she isn't behaving just because I asked her to - If you don't want to make me feel good, then why are we together? I've dealt with each incident individually as if it were isolated and the last time it would happen, but each event is slightly different enough to her apparently - I say disrespect of any shade is still disrespect.

2 years ago was the down the pants incident, 1 year ago was the feeling up incident and last week was the strip club incident with intermittent kissing mixed throughout. I know, I know, as I type this I see the patern myself. My real complaint is NOW that I've told her straight how it affects me, she says "sorry, didn't know it was hurting you" I say if you didn't know that already, then you don't think much of me and probably never will. We've built a lot and I hate to bring in the wrecking crew, but I don't see where I can ever trust her or worse, feel like she isn't behaving just because I asked her to - If you don't want to make me feel good, then why are we together? I've dealt with each incident individually as if it were isolated and the last time it would happen, but each event is slightly different enough to her apparently - I say disrespect of any shade is still disrespect.

Hell no, when you get married the women stop trying to impress you and assume they hold the strings and work you like a puppet until you fight back or leave