If you are married than you dont need to go any where most of the time in future for help..you will always find nearby you...i think you understand...who is that person..
but only one truth is that developed contries are consuming most of the oil resources everyday...do you know that...? US importing most largest amount of Oil Resources....
when you have love and respect for that person than that person must have for you..
And about Nuclear bomb comment to understand that you have to grow up...